
Social software is all software that allows its users to share data and interact with other users. Currently the most popular forms of this social software are Facebook, Twitter, Youtube, Skype, MSN, and Blogger. It involves lots of different aspects from profile site to video sharing to instant messaging programs and blogs. In the last decade he use of these sites and programs has shot up drastically. Practically everyone with a computer has used at least one of these methods
It has so greatly affected the way communication happens that entire relationships and even business organizations run through this form of technology. No one is spared, everyone is exposed to addictiveness of these sites. The purpose of social software is to connect people with each other and provide another way to share what is on your mind. However, many problems have occurred to users of these programs.

Best friends can become the worst enemies because of the power of this communication technology. This computer mediated communication has its flaws. Twitter for example is a platform that allows users to update their status very often and tell other what they are doing. This communication can be hazardous because people often assume that the post is related to them and may take offence. Recently a couple friends of mine got into an argument because one posted “irritating person near me blithering nonsense”. The other automatically assumed that he was talking about her cause she was sitting next to him in class and they got into an argument…turns out that the post had nothing to do with her and was actually referring to the person sitting in front making annoying remarks to his friend.
The other problem faced with sites like Facebook and Myspace is false communication…the creep factor. Profile sites have long been unsafe with the potential stalkers and pedophiles hunting people down using this form of communication. It makes anonymity very simple and could have dangerous repercussions. For example “Hi my name is Ashley, we went to school together back in grade 1” the start of a conversation with a person you cannot remember but are trying to. Later turns out the person is an old man running under false labels and is just trying to get to you.

That’s not all, there are still more problems associated with communicating through social software. One of these issues is an addiction, Twitter, Facebook, and even Youtube is filled with addicts as they feel the need to keep everybody updated on their life minute to minute. I have one such friend who once went clubbing with me, he was busy updating his facebook status every couple minutes to the point where it began to irritate me. His posts were along the lines of:-
“in line outside Zouk”
“still in line outside Zouk”
“have moved closer to the entrance of Zouk”
“Phuture is already full so going to enter Zouk”
“just entered Zouk”
“waiting in line to get my free drink”
“saw hot babe while waiting in line for drink”
…you get the idea…
When social software becomes your primary means of communication you lose your grip on reality and you also lose the privacy that you had as people get into the habit of just posting everything without thinking of future consequences.
Over and all social software is the latest trend for communicating one on one as well as your thoughts to the general public. It is very efficient as many people are now on it, but it must be used with caution as there are many problems associated with it.







